Meet Women
My fellow men ask me about " seducing women " and "how to understand women " and other such topics frequently .
But the simple fact of the matter for all of these kind of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better instruction than good old "experience".
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I wrote my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
Most importantly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to agree that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no aim of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better comprehension of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you like, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
What do you think most parents told their teen sons and daughters?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people usually continue this habit of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
The cure is elementary. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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